You will always receive exactly what you need for your highest possible evolution… if you accept the challenge as a gift.
Now I know…the idea of “everything happens for a reason” has often been poo-pooed upon by many as “toxic positivity”*.
*Positive psychology is highly misunderstood. It is a strength based process that doesn’t ignore problems but puts a larger focus on what is (going) right.
…And it’s absolutely not.
Part of the challenge is, in fact, feeling your emotions fully so you can uncover the wounds that are asking to be healed.
By accepting life as it is, and that even challenges have a gift for you, it takes you out of the victim mentality and back into a position of power. It’s an acknowledgement that you are the co-creator of your life.
Even in this belief, or knowing, you might not feel good at first. It still may take days and months (and sometimes even years or a lifetime) to process the emotions and experience. Yet now, you can keep moving forward.
(Personally, although I think I am speaking for many here, the victim mentality can keep me in a dangerously depressed state.)
You don’t actually have to like what you’re receiving (although your soul WILL be rejoicing). You just have to accept it. In that willingness, you’ve already stepped into a higher version of yourself.
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